Using apps like Scruff, Grindr and Hornet is your way to tap into the gay scene of wherever you are and find secret gay bars, underground parties, and other events. I just can't wrap my head around the idea of random hookups. Some people on Grindr are vers meaning they're both top and bottombut I was surprised at the sheer number of people who told me they were only interested in being a top or a bottom. May upset some dark meat? That night we fooled around and made out and eventually more. This one, folks, is dangerous.
Apparently lesbian sex right now.
One of my best gay friends in New York met his now boyfriend of three years on Grindr. I wanted to see what all the buzz was about. Everyone did.